Most of us love to hate someone.
But hate is a powerful word.
I say I hate someone because I cannot tolerate that person.
and so there may be various reasons for different people to say that they hate someone.
Why do we hate someone?
It is because of the body language or tone of their voice or some outer or inner characteristic?
We spoke about a daily acquaintance of many.
What is so unique about him/her that he/she manages to create a dislike for him/her in people?
Is it the style of communication, because we all are saying something which does not go with one culture which creates a gap.
That person might not fit into our cultural values and we might not fit into somebody else's.
Then why blame others for being in the arena of hatred where at some point we might belong there too.
We believe we have the authority or sometimes we assume or pretend to have the authority to blame/dislike someone. This authority is our rank.
I know I have a rank in college because I can paint good and comfortably with all kinds of medium.At the same time I know I face difficulty in writing, so I take extra efforts but I pretend in class as though it was easily and simple.
Thus when we know that we are at a lower rank than a person/group we are more conscious and if are at higher rank we might not take extra efforts to be recognized.
Thus we need to analyse others in a situation and talk accordingly and represent ourselves in a certain manner for our benefit and for others too.
But hate is a powerful word.
I say I hate someone because I cannot tolerate that person.
and so there may be various reasons for different people to say that they hate someone.
Why do we hate someone?
It is because of the body language or tone of their voice or some outer or inner characteristic?
We spoke about a daily acquaintance of many.
What is so unique about him/her that he/she manages to create a dislike for him/her in people?
Is it the style of communication, because we all are saying something which does not go with one culture which creates a gap.
That person might not fit into our cultural values and we might not fit into somebody else's.
Then why blame others for being in the arena of hatred where at some point we might belong there too.
We believe we have the authority or sometimes we assume or pretend to have the authority to blame/dislike someone. This authority is our rank.
I know I have a rank in college because I can paint good and comfortably with all kinds of medium.At the same time I know I face difficulty in writing, so I take extra efforts but I pretend in class as though it was easily and simple.
Thus when we know that we are at a lower rank than a person/group we are more conscious and if are at higher rank we might not take extra efforts to be recognized.
Thus we need to analyse others in a situation and talk accordingly and represent ourselves in a certain manner for our benefit and for others too.
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